Oct 22 2007

The Award Acceptance speech..

Published by DDmom at 1:12 am under Congrats Thankyou

I am gratified to receive my first blog award bestowed upon me by Trishna, MNamma and Poppin’s mom.
!! T H A N K Y O U !!

They say I have the power of Schmooze. You bet I have !

This award is “for bloggers who “effortlessly weave their way in and out of the blogosphere, leaving friendly trails and smiles, happily making new friends along the way. They don’t limit their visits to only the rich and successful, but spend some time to say hello to new blogs as well. They are the ones who engage others in meaningful conversations, refusing to let it end at a mere hello - all the while fostering a sense of closeness and friendship.”

There seems to be a lot of controversy surrounding the purpose of this award and if it suits one or the other. Every one is entitled to their opinion, thats why we are here, blogging to get a varied perspective on things.. To me, it doesn’t matter what it’s about. What’s matters is the spirit with which one starts the award chain and uses this as a means to acknowledge others who influence them one way or the other. If I am writing today, its only because of you all. I know my limitations. I don’t have a writing style, I am not good at expressing with the right set of words, phrase, punch lines. Yet I write. Because I am having fun and it has made me a better person today[Says the LH]. It started as a place to vent, but slowly it has become much more than that. It is more than just a platform to exchange ideas and tips on parenting. It feels as though I know most of you’ll personally. Thoughts stay through the day, even when I am not reading or writing…
What did Winkie wear for the kolu? the kurta or the sherwani… Hope Kodi had fun at school today… Wow! Madhu and Nandu went to the circus.. Moppet and family are vacationing.. hmm.. Aadya has started solids.. Squiggles doc advises to wait couple of more months before starting on solids.. Did Boo put Ashu back to school after returning back from India? Hope its going well.. Asha had her son Kevin, hope they are doing fine… Poppin’s monthly update with a new picture, what will it be.. Movie starring dotmom and chip.. Swati busy with her vacation preparation and Aryan’s day care issues.. Funny conversations with Anirudh… Gauri and her wonderful family look so calm, content and happy.. JLT has a new job, hope Sonny boy is doing ok with eating.. What Kiran’s brat is going to do next to make his mum proud.. aargee busy with relocation planning.. Parul’s son aadi hopefully sleeping better, hope she figured some colored noise.. haven’t visited CA’s blog after cantaloupe started day care.. haven’t visited Rash’s blog in a while.. Read COS is going through a bad patch, need to go back and read. Hope she sorts it out soon.. What happened to 4sha, 4 months no news.. left few comments on her blog, no response, hope all is well.. Dame’s son made a heart shape in his food plate… Hope SM’s starting a new blog soon.. Naren had his birthday party today.. I need to take up WIAN’s tag soon.. Popol’s so cute in the latest pics.. Timepass, RV, yaadayaada, Suki leaving sweet comments though they don’t have kids yet..
chula and meija’s latest quirks.. though I talk to their mom every now and then, the narration of utbt adds more fun..
And the newest aquaintances, chintu, nikki and aryan… should read more about them..



If you feel like sleeping, its not your fault. Feel free to skip, but please read the last para before dozing off.


Boo’s is the very first blog I visited. I stumbled upon hers while searching for pregnancy delivery Bangalore. Read her post on Ashu’s birth experience and laughed my guy out. In real life, I know her through her sister. Ashu sounded familiar, but I couldn’t connect the dots. Left with a warm feeling, thinking how one could write so beautifully and effortlessly.


Then, one fine afternoon in February, I was having a phone conversation with a friend. A friend with whom I can talk for 2 hours without an agenda, without a reason, without a topic. That day we talked about D, work and blogs. In the midst of the conversation, she said she read about girls abuse in the blogs she follows. That, how elegantly some of the bloggers wrote about day to day happenings, some used it to vent, some used it as an online diary, some boldly talked about controversial topics. And then we made fun of each other, both of us being creatively challenged[Now you know why I did not link you here.. ]. We both are well connected and pretty successful in the professional world, but when it comes to expressing thoughts in writing, we aren’t there. How we could never blog. !!Never say Never, Ever!!
Just when I put the phone down, the LH asked So now you are going to blog? and laughed. Why not? I thought to myself. I am not writing a book or a journal, lets write whatever comes to mind.. Few days later I registered with no clue on what I was going to write… And here I am today writing comments at 4 in the morning..


Then came Noon, the first to leave a comment on my blog. I still remember, it was late in the night probably mid night when I got the first comment. In couple of days we had exchanged emails, knew each others due dates and kids names. So noon, you can come out of hiding..


Few days later, Poppin’s mom announced Dlittle’s birth in her blog. I was overwhelmed with her act and absolutely loved it. It opened doors to many many fellow bloggers, and I am hooked on ever since.


It’s not that I write for others, I would probably continue to write even if I did not have a single visitor, as this blog is slowly turning into a log about me, my kids and our journey together.
But in all honesty, if not for the comments and regular visitors, I would not have written more than a post a month.


This is the first award I have received and probably the last :) , so I had to take this opportunity to write all I wanted. If you managed to reach this far, YOU ARE AWARDED! You have the power to schmooze! If you have already been awarded, all the better. Let’s hear about your engagement story Or the mushiest moment ever[courtesy DotMom].

13 Responses to “The Award Acceptance speech..”

  1. Poppinson 22 Oct 2007 at 2:50 am

    Aw thank you for the mention ! It was interesting to see the history behind your blog. It was such a nice coincidence about how you and Noon were having the babies at the same time. So you know Boo’s sister? That’s so cool.

    You totally deserve the award girl and it’s certainly not going to be your last one !
    ——
    Yup, started out as a tool to experiment, then used it as a space to vent. Now, using it as a log to record events, on the way making wonderful friends like you :)

  2. B o o.on 22 Oct 2007 at 10:09 am

    Hey, I am honored at the mention! I did nt know that you stumbled into my blog. I thot Big Boo told you.
    And thanks for the concern. Ashu is starting a new school, not the old daycare, from November and Im dreading it. Get ready to read my long rants then! :(
    ——
    Boo, Big Boo had mentioned about your blog. But she never gave your blog name and I never asked her. Happy I stumbled upon yours.
    I thought Ashu was going to continue in old day care before starting new school. Best wishes!

  3. kodi's momon 22 Oct 2007 at 12:28 pm

    you wonder about Kodi’s day at school?! how sweet are you! you absolutely deserve the award!! simply for making your blog birthday party central :D nice to read what motivated you to blog and am glad you asked ‘why not’!

  4. Tharinion 22 Oct 2007 at 6:01 pm

    Thanks honey for wondering what Winkie wore. I stuck to plain old shirts and trousers this time.:) What a sweet post this was. It was nice to know your roots. You definitely most certainly deserve the award. :)

  5. Shobanaon 22 Oct 2007 at 10:23 pm

    Congrats on the award and a beautiful acceptance speech. Why can’t some actors make such ones at the academy awards? Maybe you should do it for them…think about it!! Congrats again.

    Shobana
    http://mybabynaren.blogspot.com/

  6. noonon 23 Oct 2007 at 2:55 am

    Hi DDMom,
    Am excited to know that I was the first to leave a comment on your blog! I didn’t know that! You are a natural at blogging - and you are so perfect for this award - I was so sure you would have this award already!
    And that para about all the kids etc was great! I know - you get to know people so much you think about them and wonder about them later right?
    Congratulations!

  7. Anithaon 23 Oct 2007 at 10:19 am

    Congrats! That was a beautiful write-up DDMom. Especially the part where you have written such sensible oneliners about all the mommy/baby blogs.

  8. Collection Of Starson 23 Oct 2007 at 10:44 am

    WoW! DDmom….way to go. Congrats!
    You write beautifully. You have a way with words and your flow is prefect :)
    You are so considerate too. I too think about the other bloggers and what is happening but you have put it down beautifully.

  9. utbtkidson 23 Oct 2007 at 2:08 pm

    Congrats girl.

    Heads up. Party at Kodi’s. We are discussing you.

  10. mnammaon 24 Oct 2007 at 1:57 pm

    DDMom,
    What a beautiful acceptance speech :) and you say don’t write very well. You deserve this a hundred times over and you are the sweetest :)

  11. DDmomon 24 Oct 2007 at 6:21 pm

    @mnamma: Thanks for passing the award :) And 100 times over to you just for calling me the sweetest. **wiping tears of joy**

    @utbtkids: Thanks. You invited me to party@Kodi’s, I left a message and then you abscond? Not fair.

    @COS: How sweet of you to say those words. The same applies to you as well :)

    @Anitha: Thankee. We all do, don’t we?

    @noon: It stays with us, doesn’t it. Thanks for the first ever comment and getting me hooked on to it :)

    @Shobana: Actors? Academy awards? hmmppp.. Will take that as a compliment..

    @Tharini: hmm.. And we are here waiting to see pictures of Winkie and Thambi in sherwani..

    @Kodi’s mom: B’day party central :) I am glad I started blogging too. Making such wonderful friends on the way.
    Husband is very clear he does not want to read OR get involved in my blog. Sadly, he is a good listener and I am a non-stop talker, so now he knows a lot of blog kids too, just from my nightly dinner time speech :)

  12. Squiggles Momon 25 Oct 2007 at 5:38 am

    You just linked all of us together so beautifully and showed how truly we are a community. Thank you for thinking about Squiggles :) and her solids and about all the other little babies. Congrats on a well deserved award!! Yay!!!

  13. DDmomon 31 Oct 2007 at 9:36 pm

    @Squiggles Mom: We all do that, don’t we?

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