Sep 25 2009

From one child to another

Published by DDmom at 2:24 pm under Arts n Crafts, Ddidi, Dlittle, Parenting

The newest thought process in D’s world has been “poor”, “why some people are poor”, “why they don’t have money”, “their mother and father don’t work?”, “poor people are bad or good people” and the likes. I have been trying to explain this to her without labeling a class of people as “poor”, and trying to imbibe in her that poor today does not equal permanently poor. Without divulging into the relativity of how less is poor, tell her in the simplest form I know, that anyone who does not have enough money to buy basic things like food, and sometimes don’t have a house to stay, are poor. If tomorrow, mummy doesn’t work hard enough, and our company’s customer’s don’t pay us, then we will also be poor. Making sure she does not associate “poor” with any class of society, and that we could also become poor.

 

Not being sure if she is old enough to address/understand this topic, I also wonder where she picks these from. I do however feel that the class difference is much more prominent in India than in the US. My cleaner in the US drove a better car than mine. I am not saying that US does not have poverty, but the poverty line is much higher in the graph and is much less visible than it is here, in terms of basics like food and shelter. Alright, in Rani Mukherji’s Dil Bole Hadippa style, enough philosophy jhadofied.. Time to get to the point..

 

Dussehra holidays started this past Friday. I had promised the kids some fun projects for the holidays. The kids wanted to do cutting, coloring, gluing and I wanted to get something tangible out of the time spent. After some thought and discussions( with D and Babio ), we decided to make some mathematics puzzle’s and memory game’s at home. And give them to kids who cannot buy them from stores. D’s curiosity level was at it’s peak and she was supremely excited. Tagged them along to the nearby stationery shop, got some chart papers, and pairs of animals and vegetables sheets to make the memory game. I am sure a sucker for hand made items, so instead of printing out the puzzles from the computer, D just ended up with her free hand drawing skills :)

 

A picture is worth a thousand words, so here goes…
Memory game

 

Even the littlest one participated :) , though most of the time my job was to shield her from the older one’s. All in all, 2 puzzles and 2 sets of memory games were created in about 4 hours. We played with one of them a few times and are now ready to be dispatched. To whom, is the question. We plan to find out if any of the maids in this apartment complex have kids in the age group 5-10, and give these away to them. Based on the response we get, we plan to make more of these. Puzzling out India map and world map is next in line.
Addition Puzzles

 

Activity Sheet
We also hand wrote some activity sheets. D was pretty excited to be on the creating side rather than the solving side. Some picture/word matching sheets, some phonetic sheets and some numbers sheets. All in all, it was great fun to watch her enjoy the process. She is now super excited to give them away, which I am kind of surprised, owing to her this-is-mine attitude. To top it, she said, the kids might not have pencils to solve the sheets. I have lot of them, so can I give one to each kid. What could I say?

 

There were few outdoor activities we planned for the holidays, but both the kids fell sick and I am home alone with the kids. So, they are parked for another time. Am happy we got some done however.

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11 Responses to “From one child to another”

  1. CAon 25 Sep 2009 at 3:09 pm

    A very nice project … one where kids participate and learn the important lesson of “Sharing”.
    For Cantaloupes’s last birthday we played Fruits Bingo. All the cards were made (drawing and coloring) by Cantaloupe (of course with instructions). She was super thrilled when all her friends enjoyed the game “SHE” had made.

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    DDmom Reply:

    @CA, It is in-born with us no, wanting this instant gratification :)
    She has kind of learn’t to share, now that she has a younger sister, she does not have very many choices anyways. But giving away something without expecting anything materialistic back, but a lot of satisfaction is something new for her and the way she took to the whole thing, just made me one p.r.o.u.d mom.

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  2. whatsinanameon 26 Sep 2009 at 1:44 am

    Thats so very creative! Wonderful! Infact, this gives me the idea of creating such games to be given away to small kids during next golu time.

    Infact, this golu I made paper bags at home in which to give the taamboolam. I will post the pics and details in my blog after dussehra. No time now :(

    And really really good to see the “feeling-of-giving” growing in your kids. Touchwood!

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    DDmom Reply:

    @whatsinaname, Saw your post on golu. Another nice and simple way to go green :)
    Touchwood it is, it means a lot to me to see my kids developing the joy of giving.

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  3. Collection Of Starson 28 Sep 2009 at 12:21 pm

    That was both creative and very thoughtful :)

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    DDmom Reply:

    @Collection Of Stars, Thanks COS. Thoughtful yes :) , nothing artistic, we just based them on some sample puzzles we had. The kids had a lot of fun doing it.

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  4. Poppyon 29 Sep 2009 at 6:25 am

    Wow. That’s a wonderful idea – I love to see these “crafty” ideas but sadly lack in execution :)

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    DDmom Reply:

    @Poppy, Its funny that wordpress ate my own reply in my own site. I think I was saying that I am not too far fetched when it comes to execution. But, the giving away to street kids was the motivation that drove us to completion.

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  5. choxboxon 29 Sep 2009 at 1:08 pm

    A.W.E.S.O.M.E.

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    DDmom Reply:

    @choxbox, Thanks :)

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  6. yaadayaadaon 01 Oct 2009 at 1:19 am

    Kewl!!

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